I understand what’s happening to you, I have same problems with my wife. I am fed up of just soaking it up.
I always wonder why Alzheimer/ dementia always brings out the worst in patients.
Why don’t it bring out nice things instead of bad things, dementia must destroy the nice memories and it leaves bad memories/ bad feelings to attack carers with. How does dementia know the difference between good and bad things, cos it always brings out the worst in patients.
So Xmas is here and again the days turn bad, I’m tired, upset is now the normal everyday.
Very little help, meds are of very limited use. What does one do !